our wedding ceremony was very classic and traditional -- in a gorgeous, historic church and we loved it. the guys were in classic black tuxes. the girls in classic black j. crew dresses. that said, we needed a little kick. i asked each of my bridesmaids to pick out a bright color of shoes they wanted to wear. then, when we went to pick out the tuxes, the guy helping us casually asked us if we wanted traditional black or spectator shoes. my eyes got really big and before i said a word, my groom smiled and said, "spectators."
all our wedded bliss, here!